My Friend Phillip
By Dave Anderson
A few years ago I was fishing the Cape Cod Canal on one of those amazing mornings that everyone talks about. Huge schools of mackerel had been pushed into the Canal the night before by a huge school of bass ranging from 10 to over 40 pounds—maybe bigger. As the sun lit the eastern sky a heavy blanket of overcast hung over the Big Ditch and a steady NE wind blew down the chute ensuring an extended bite that might last into the afternoon if we were lucky. The morning bite was phenomenal, lots of eager fish exploding on all manner of topwater plugs and taking swimmers in tight to shore—these are the days I will never forget. But this day had a little something extra that will make it a standout day for the rest of my life.
When the tide started to move a little faster and the bite slowed down a bit, I decided to take a walk to a back eddy location that I count on to trap bait during the faster parts of the tide. I slipped into an open lane and started fishing again, as luck would have it there were plenty of fish there and metric tons of bait. As I was quietly giggling over another 20-something fish tearing line off my reel I felt eyes on my back and I turned around to see a young boy around age 8 crouching on the rocks behind me. I could see that he was transfixed on what I was doing but immediately turned away shyly when he saw that I had “caught” him quietly watching.
I turned around and tried to sound as welcoming as possible, “Hey man, what are you up to?”
He lifted his head slightly and said, “nothing” quietly.
“You’re not down here by yourself are you!?” I asked with a hint of concern.
“No, my dad and my sisters are fishing down there.” He pointed to east.
“How come you’re not fishing too?” I asked.
“My dad says I’m too little.” My new young friend said shifting his gaze quickly to the ground.
At that moment I decided that we were going to prove that notion wrong. I looked back at the young toe-headed boy and asked, “What’s your name anyway?”
“Phillip” he said.
“Alright, Phillip you want to catch a fish?”
His eyes flashed with excitement while he nodded and sprang to his feet. I fired a cast into the rip and began working my pencil back toward the shore, I can’t remember a time I wanted a fish to take my plug more than that moment and after about 20 feet of penciling, wham, I was tight to a fish. I shoveled the rod into Phil’s hands and the battle was on. My 10-foot rod dwarfed Phillip who featured the typical slight build of an 8-year old and he stood less than four feet tall but he battled that fish like a champion and with a little coaching from me he had the fish close and I was able to land the fish for him. Phil was ecstatic, the fish was maybe 14 pounds but it might as well have been 100, because this was Phil’s first striper and, perhaps more importantly, he had succeeded in proving his dad wrong—has wasn’t too little! (Take that, DAD). I let Phil hold and inspect his catch before we released it and I asked him if he wanted to try and catch a bigger one? I’m sure you can imagine what his response was…
“YES!”
This time the hit did not come easily. I fished through a few casts, gave Phillip a few clumsy casting lessons and asked him all kinds of questions about his favorite subjects in school, what he liked to do when he wasn’t fishing, etc. It didn’t take long before Phil and I were swapping stories like old friends. It’s amazing how smart and how observant young kids are, it’s easy to write them off as “just kids” but when you talk to them for a few minutes it’s just as easy to forget that you’re laughing it up with a second grader! Well after about 15 minutes of nothing I got one of those splashless “vortex” hits on the pencil, the mark of a sizeable fish! The rod bucked hard in my hands and I again handed the rod off to Phil. As he positioned the butt of the rod between his knees and tried to lean back on the fish he pitched forward and I had to lend a third hand for a few moments just below the first guide. When Phil was settled I let go and he got to work on this fish. It took about 10 minutes but finally the fish was within sight, an easy 25-pounder, but someone to our right cast over his line, tangled him up and we lost the fish! I wanted to scream but I knew I needed to set a good example for young Phillip so I just told him that these things happen and that we’d try to catch another one.
The fish Gods though, had given all they could for that day. About 20 minutes later his sister came to fetch him so they could go back to their vacation home. I said goodbye to Phil and asked if he’d be back the next day—I knew I would—he nodded, yes.
As rewarding as forging my friendship with Phil was I wished I could track his dad down and tell him to arm this kid with a rod. He wanted it SO badly and he was more than capable, especially if he had a rod that was matched to his size. I also know that telling people that they’ve missed the mark on their child’s readiness for something is also likely to be met with some kind of defensive retort—never mind when it comes from someone that they’ve never met! So I let it go.
The next day was just as good as the day before and when I made my move to the back eddy location I was really hoping to see Phil. I looked around but I didn’t see him. I walked past my spot to the east, remembering where Phil had pointed the day before and lo and behold there he was with his whole family and, he was sporting a new 8-foot rod and reel standing with a posture of pride that you’d have to be blind to miss! I yelled down to him, “Hey Phil, how many did you get today?”
“I’ve had six so far, that’s more than my dad!”
He was throwing a swimmer and having a blast.
Another victim of the disease.
Editors note
John ” I can catch a fish in the road side piddle” Skinner during his early years
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Dave, great story! This is what it’s all about! Helping the next generation learn, enjoy and get “hooked”!
Kudos to you. You’ve indoctrinated another young and willing fisherman. That boy will remember that day forever, and hopefully in 20-30 (or more) years from now, he’ll do the same for another young soul!
The most rewarding fishing moments for me have always been when fishing with my two young sons (ages 11 and 13 now).
Fish On!
↓Great story. That is what it’s all about….pass the thrill on to others.
↓Great story!! I have two boys ages 6 & 9 that ask to go fishing every chance they get, and I gladly take them! The feelings I get when I watch them enjoy the sport as much as I, are the same ones that were expressed very well in this story. And just so happens..the weather is looking great for this weekend! I already know we’re going to wet a line somewhere, and I’m so looking forward to it. Thanks again!!
↓Great story, I had to share it with my wife. We have a two year old that I can’t wait to take fishing.
↓awesome story dave .
↓AWSOME STORY DAVE , I HAVE TO TELL YOU WATCHING MY 10 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER IN HER WADERS AND HER 9 FOOT LAMI ALL GEARED UP. PUTS ON A SMILE I JUST CANT EXPLAIN. I CANT EVER SNEEK OFF TO MONTAUK JUST BY MYSELF , SOME HOW SHE KNOWS BEFOR I TAKE OFF AND THERE SHE IS IN THE TRUCK ALL GEARED UP AND READY TO GO. AT TEN YEARS OLD SHE HAS SPENT PLENTY OF NIGHTS SLEEPING RIGHT NEXT TO ME IN THE BACK OF MY FORD F150 WAITING FOR THE BITE TO START!
↓Thanks Dave!
That made my otherwise dreary day!
↓Thanks everyone. I just realized that I left out the best part of the story!! After we released his fish I was casting and I looked back to see that Phil was visibly shivering, I asked him if he was cold… His reply,
No, I’m just really excited from catching that fish!
↓what a heartwarming story, as a 75 year old man who had the love of fishing passed down from his father, and who cherishes all the fishing memories of my dad and i, i must commend you for getting the ball rolling for phil, great story.
↓Best post on this blog ever! You just changed that kid’s life in one of the best ways possible. Huge respect for you, Mr. Anderson.
↓Dave great writing and heartwarming story. Glad you added the last part; awesome!
↓Hope all is well,
Andrew
Great story! I get way more excited when one of my boys leans into a nice fish than I do for myself. That look only a child can have is priceless. Thanks Dave.
Chris
↓Great story! Kids will often exceed expectations if you give them a chance.
↓great story thks
↓Great read!! And a true example of good sportsmanship!
↓Dave, Excellent, excellent story! I’m sure that young man will remember that day and you for the rest of his life. I also wanted to thank you for getting me hooked on lure building, god smiles on you!
↓good work!
↓NICE!!!!!!!
↓I lifetime memory and new found love. Great Dave
↓Your a hell of a guy Dave. The world could use a couple more people like you great story.
↓What a nice story. Thanks for sharing it !
↓Great article and so true about parents who think their kids are too little to fish.
↓Dave, Great story, thank you.
↓Thanks dave nice story
↓Great story Dave.
One little nit to pick — ” toe-headed boy” … I think you meant “tow-headed”? Since you’re the SCJ editor … hope you don’t mind, couldn’t help myself, Mom was an English teacher.
BTW, keep up all the good work on the magazine, I really enjoy it a LOT!
↓I could read the twinkle in his eye. Great story. Nothing more enjoyable then opening a little persons eyes.i
↓great story!
↓Great story. !!!!
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